Latest letters
What I wanted vs reality vs what was needed
By MeRead moreI wanted so badly for you to be the last one. I wanted to be your only one. I...
2If you died tonight
By RBRead moreAnxiety still consumes my days. Waking up everyday with the vision of u and all of the women u...
Why did you do it
By MeghanRead moreI don’t understand why you did this to me. You did this to your family. You did this to...
I forgive you and myself
By LunaRead moreIt’s the year anniversary of my submission to you. I remember how awful I felt all those times I...
What I wish I’d told you
By YvesRead moreIt’s been 22 days since the last time I sent that goodbye letter to you. You have no idea...
Love is conditional
By StrangerRead moreSuddenly all the love you did was gone forever. I did every single thing I could to make this...
Part of me always knew we wouldn’t work out
By LisaRead moreDear JC, As you know we meet online which isn’t something I’m ashamed of. I can be a shy...
Things not to text him
By AshleyRead moreThings to not text him I miss you I wish you were here in bed with me. I definitely...
Not going to happen
By MimiRead moreDear S, I gave you my all. I gave you everything I had to give and 8 months after...
You left me so confused
By BelleRead moreDear Mike… I really don’t know… we were so good in the first year, you gave me my first...
Why did we stick it out for so long?
By aaRead moreTo A, Yesterday I unfriended you on Facebook, and the emotions came immediately. A sadness that I haven’t felt...
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