I wish you well

All’s well

All’s well 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Johannes,

Life’s too short to waste time feeling bad about the past. I had a conversation yesterday which got me thinking about the unfriendly way we stopped, so…

I’m sorry about the way I behaved and the things I said that were designed just to make you feel bad. It’s embarrassing. I also want you to know that I don’t have hard feelings towards you. You were an important person to me, and in a way you always will be. I don’t blame you for what happened because it was already decided. I know you’re gonna be great, man. Do well and be happy and don’t look back.

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I’ll always love you

I’ll always love you 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Baby,

I miss you, I feel guilty, I know I shouldn’t, but I still do. You were my rock. I leaned on you to much. I feel like I let you down in so many ways. I loved you so much. I was always faithful to you. I worked to hard. I treated you too well. I put you first. I am sorry about that. You hurt me so bad throwing away our marriage like you did. 13 years married. 18 years together. How could you cheat on me with a 26 year old heroin junkie, with 2 kids by 2 different women, no job, and that still lived with his parents.

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Another one bites the dust

Another one bites the dust 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear You

I am writing you this because I feel as if there is a lot that has been left unsaid on my behalf. When we first started dating, we both mentioned and agreed on exactly what we’re looking for and that was to find someone we can settle down with. With saying that, I thought you were looking to have just as a serious relationship with someone as much as I was. I am sorry that it seemed that I was taking our relationship too “serious” for you. However, I do not find that a fair saying.

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You’ll realize someday

You’ll realize someday 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear Joe

I honestly don’t even know where to start or what to say to you . I don’t even know how to put into words the pain you’ve caused me and the disappointment you put me through. I’ve been sitting here for days thinking and wondering what happened to the honest and faithful guy I fell in love with. The guy that would never hurt me, would never leave me, would never treat me the way you have. I tried to put myself in your shoes and try to see things from your perspective… but they just didn’t make sense. Things just didn’t add up.

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Forgiveness

Forgiveness 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear Neil, I’m writing this as talking to you today was so hard. Hearing you sound so happy and in love made me feel like shite. You both have hurt me so much, it feels like my head is a pressure cooker about to explode. However I realise I need to forgive you both to move on for the sake of our two beautiful children. I don’t think anyone can comprehend how I’m feeling, you were my first boyfriend and we were together for 18 years. You always said it would be us and the kids forever so to get together with my friend of 7 years hurt like hell.

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Final letter to Ex

Final letter to Ex 150 150 Letter To My Ex

It’s been 6 days since we last talked when I asked you if you wanted to push me out of your life for good. If you wanted it to be as if I never existed. The emotional turmoil you have put me through the past 2 mos made me lose control of my emotions, like a tidal wave come crashing on me receptivity, which put me in a state of denial. I couldn’t believe someone like you was capable of inflicting such pain and agony. I realized from the last time we talked that you held resentment toward me for hurting you in the past. So in turn you waited and waited for the right moment to retaliate and yes you finally got your revenge.
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“Mildly” heartbroken…

“Mildly” heartbroken… 150 150 Letter To My Ex

It’s hard to know what to say. I know you will never read this… so I don’t even know why I’m bothering with it. It just seems like you’ve had such an easy time with parting ways… after the things you said to me… I don’t know how. I was “essential”, you wanted to be with me “forever”, you wanted to be my “one and only”… a few months later… ONLY a few months…? Suddenly you forgot about all of it, and I still don’t understand how I could be so… disposable. For someone who was SO important to you such a short time ago, it doesn’t make sense. It never will. I thought I was going to be okay… I thought that this would be easy compared to how I’ve been hurt in the past, but… I was wrong…

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I hate your guts.

I hate your guts. 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear Taylor,

If someone would have asked me two years ago if we would be together today… There would have been no doubt in my mind, my answer would have been YES. Being with you has always made perfect sense to me. Marrying you would have made me the happiest girl in the whole entire world…. I will never regret meeting you and having a relationship with you, because honestly by cheating on me and breaking my heart, it’s taught me how strong a person I am and that there is more to life then you. The only guy that I have ever been in love with.

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Wrong places and wrong times

Wrong places and wrong times 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear Matt,

Our whole involvement with each other was strange, sudden and swift. I really thought I could let myself fall for you and as all the decisions about dating, being in the relationship etc were your idea, I was absolutely crushed and so confused when you ended it. It took a while but I picked myself up and moved on with life.

And then, a year later, you contact me. With all your lovely words and your fun conversations and how much I enjoy your company. You chose to manipulate me while I was in a vulnerable situation in my current relationship. Old feelings were stirred up I think due to the way we ended the first time and the fact that I never really had closure. We were both in the wrong here, emotionally I was cheating with you and you were encouraging me to. And then you do the same thing you did when we were together! Nobody has confused me more than you have.

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I Didn’t See It But Now It’s So Clear

I Didn’t See It But Now It’s So Clear 150 150 Letter To My Ex

I don’t know if I was in denial or just ignorant of the signs or most likely a little of both. You came over to my house completely wasted at least 2 times. You couldn’t keep your hands off me the last time and it kind of scared me. I’m not sure you even know it, but I do now. You’re an alcoholic.

You said you liked to have a couple of beers after work, but once you drank so much that you couldn’t remember our argument the next day. Sometimes you’d slur your words on the phone, especially when we argued.

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