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Please just let me go
Please just let me go 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Hey, I know it didn’t work, and you tried, but as you saw, my feelings changed for you and I don’t feel the same way as before. Like some people I got, tired and bored of the same pattern, waking up to a bunch of texts saying how stupid and naive I am, how you would replace me if you had the chance and that I was lucky to have him look up to me and then a bunch of apologies saying you didn’t mean to say those things and that you were drunk.

Even though I loved you once, I need you to move on, you are giving me the creeps when you take pictures of me and send me notes or spying on me. I’m so sorry you are not able to move on, but I have already did – so please, stop doing that, we are not a thing anymore.

I am sorry, not so sorry, because in the end, wasn’t me, wasn’t you, it was a sign that this would not work out. I hope you have a beautiful life and enjoy it because spying isn’t gonna make me look back.

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Continue, or Game Over
Continue, or Game Over 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear Sarah,

Why? Why did you ruin everything? To this day I’m not even remotely sure if you actually loved me, or if you were just obsessed with me. I guess it doesn’t really matter any more. The end result was the same.

You were supposed to be the one. My forever Player Two. The person who finally washed away all the other heartbreak I’d gone through. Instead, you ended up being the last chapter of my quest for true love. I once said to you “It’s you or no-one.” It looks like that may have been more true than even I realised, because since we parted I’ve been cursed. Failed dates, a really ill-fated attempt to get back with another ex, and now no-one is even remotely interested in having me as their other half.

The worst part is, part of me still misses you. That cute smile, infectious laugh, your sense of humour, the way your hair felt when I brushed my fingers through it or how your lips felt on mine. How you’re the one lass who would play something like Stellaris or Chivalry with me. When we watched awesome (and terrible) films and shows together. You don’t know how strong the urge is to actually try and talk to you again, that old ‘what if we can fix it?’ voice sounding out in my heart.

The problem is, my head tells me something else. How you became so incredibly distant during our last time together. How you kept changing your mind on how you apparently felt for me. The fact that you thought it was fine to poison a good friend against me (and I know you had something to do with that, I wasn’t born yesterday), and all because your insane and irrational jealousy told you to do so.

No, I’m not perfect. I pushed you away at times. I was battling my own issues; my mental health and my past traumas. You know fine well what losing someone else before you did to me and I was working through that. I needed closure. But you expected me to drop all my issues to make way for yours. That isn’t how it works.

But the damnedest thing of all, Sarah? I’ll never forget what you told me right before we got back together for the last time. “I hate the fact that I feel this way for you.” I think that was the truest thing you ever told me, and all I can remember now is that, plus the toxic things that you decided it was fine to do.

So, thanks for breaking my heart completely and taking the last ounce of belief I had in this thing called ‘true love.’ Yet, you can’t seem to let go, can you? You were all around my friendship circle, hovering on the edge and stalking my social media. You just won’t let go of me, will you? Even after everything that happened.

I just don’t see a way we could ever be together again; the damage is too great. If you truly are sorry, then find a way to talk to me and tell me instead of this weird stalkerish behaviour. If you really don’t care though, then just leave me in peace.

It’s been almost 4 years, Sarah. Either prove to me that you actually ARE the one, or stay where you belong…in my memories.

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I’m deeply sorry.
I’m deeply sorry. 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Jaden, i am really sorry i played with your feelings but i need you to move on and let go of me please

It’s better for the both of us look i really wanted someone to love me when we first started dating i thought it didn’t matter who it was but it did

when i told you the day after that i feel better if we stay friends i noticed that what i did was wrong because if i love someone i should truly love that person not the love the give me

i’m sorry…

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You’re free of me
You’re free of me 150 150 Letter To My Ex

I knew from the start this is exactly how you’d leave
You found someone more younger skinner thinks like you was gonna maybe be a financial score  The next second, you were gone
And you left me there cryin’, wonderin’ what I did wrong
But you couldn’t have cared less
About someone who loved you more
I’d say you broke my heart
But you broke much more than that

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Treacherous Twin II – I love you, now let me go
Treacherous Twin II – I love you, now let me go 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Hi. It’s been exactly 5 months since that Sunday I left. You’ve been in touch twice after. 
I will always respect you and be polite but my self-respect comes first and it’s time to move on.

It hurts like hell to do it like this but meeting and sitting down with you to discuss us would open all those wounds again and I just can’t handle it. 

After your drunk texting, I’m doubting your intentions. It hurts to hear you’re struggling but you need to close the door without my help. 

Our love will always live in our hearts and the memories will replay in our minds for a while still. Although the pain is unbearable at times, we learn to live with it. Time heals, I believe.

I pray for you everyday and wish you find happiness and peace. Take care of yourself, you deserve everything.

Julia

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In another lifetime
In another lifetime 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Hi Kinzie, 

I wish I could be there for you. I wish I could support you, and hold you when you’re sad. This past week has been be just convincing myself that I deserve more then you were able to give me. So I’m trying to put all that energy into myself. But its really difficult. Im sorry I can’t support you with all the pain you have been feeling. I really wish you didn’t end things, I could have been through this journey of change with you. But I know you want to do it alone. I think you need to do it alone. Thank you for everything you taught me. That sometimes its okay to buy that dress, or buy those clothes because it makes you feel okay. Sometimes its okay to say no, and sometimes its okay to say yes. You taught me what unconditional love was. You allowed me to grow. I think its time for you to grow. I think its time for you to make that next step.

Unfortunately, I cant be there. You have to do this part on your own and you know it. I want to share my pain with you, so we can comfort each other. But you cant and aren’t my person anymore. and i’m not Yours. I wish our lives were different. I wish I wasn’t so stuck. And i wish you weren’t stuck either. 

When we began, everything felt so right. It was the first time it really felt right. I knew I was choosing the right person. I knew i had to make sacrifices if I wanted to be with you. I don’t regret any of them. I just hope i helped you in these past 5 years and didn’t make you feel alone.

There was some things that happened during our relationship. I started to feel distant, and i was grasping at any attention I could get. There were people i would flirt with while playing games,  but also so openly speak about you. The flirting to some extend was innocent in the case of attention, but it wasn’t okay. I haven’t stopped thinking about it till this day. I knew it was wrong the entire time, but I just wanted to have fun. I wanted what we had back. I remember myself, these people are temporary. They don’t care about me, and they wont exist in my life in a year from now. And I was right.

I never told you because you deserved better, then some shit excuse. I convinced myself it was okay, because I though of you the entire time. I convinced myself that it was okay because I wasn’t ignoring you or neglecting you (or so I think i wasn’t). 

I wish we were able to meet earlier. I wanted to feel that connection with you, but our lives sent us in different directions. I hope we can 
still meet each other. I want to be the best version of myself when i meet you. I hope you can forgive me for the past few days after the breakup. But I need to stand my ground. You broke up with me, I cant use my heart anymore i need to use my head.

I’m around people constantly because I cant stop thinking about you. 
Around people who don’t care what happened, around people who don’t even ask. Around people who know the pain i’m feeling but don’t ask if i’m okay. Because what am i to them? What was i to them when i was happy. I don’t remember but I do remember telling myself that I want to be peoples safe space. But i never realized how lonely it would be.

I feel selfish for not wanting to feel pain, I feel selfish because the posts i put the retweets the subreddits. Its all around you, and even what you posted that it is hurting you. It was not my  intention, i’m just trying to put somewhere how i feel. At the end of the day, i’m alone in this world. I need someone who can help me when my mom passes away. Im so scared that day will come sooner then I need it to be. 

I know my life will never be the same. I wanted that person to be you, but you never understood the life she had for me. Your mom treated you unfairly a lot, and I know its taken its toll on you. But love is possible, 
your dad loves you. Make him proud, be able to support yourself. I cant be there to support you, I wanted to tell your dad i would take care of you if anything happens to him. I don’t know who else can do it now, but please find someone who will love you whole. Who feels the same way you do, and will love every one of your flaws. Find the place in your life you feel safe. Where you are your happiest, and where you feel like you have a purpose. Its all i’ve ever wanted. 

We are both very broken people, and tried to fix each other with glue and tape. The tape and glue ran out and we tried to fix each other with pieces of ourselves. Love doesn’t work that way. We lost ourselves in the process.

The last year I have felt so alone, and so ugly. When we first met you looked at me the way I look at people. I finally felt i met my soul mate. But your eyes and your love vanished over time. Was it because of the pain i caused you? If it was i’m sorry. Im so scared that I have damaged you. But to be honest we damaged each other.

I really want to speak to you tomorrow, so I can understand where you are right now. But i cant ask you how you are feeling, because it doesn’t matter anymore. If i know you are in pain, I am going to want to be there. I will want to stay up with you all night and make sure you’re okay. 
I don’t want to cry in front of you, but I have a strong feeling it will happen. Will waiting more time stop that? Or will waiting more time just hurt you.

You’ve always felt like i see you as such a burden but that was never ever the case. I just wanted better for you, i wanted better for us. I would have never left you. I would have followed you till the end of the world. Regardless, the past months have been so horrible for me. 
I think you feel our love is gone, and thats why you ended it too. You want to find the happiness, in yourself and with your life. I really  want you to find happiness. Its so important to me. I don’t want to hate you, 
even though things you’ve done make me angry. Things that i’ve noticed that you changed and hid from me. 

But you were right, I don’t even know you anymore. I stopped questioning everything because i trusted that you would communicate with me. But i should have known that you weren’t communicating you were blocking
me out. I know i should have said something. Even though I told myself it was enough, it wasn’t. 

I hate that i can reflect on this so much now that we are apart. This is horrible. Its scary that, i feel closer to you now then i have in so long. I hope we can meet one day. Please. I love you. I always will love you. I will always care for you. But i cant right now. I have to put myself first. I hope you put yourself first too. Please know you are worthy of love. You are worthy of feelings, worthy of feeling pain and moving past it. Keep pushing keep going. You can do anything. 

My other two exes I hated. It felt real for a short time with them, but what I felt with you was nothing compared. I felt we connected with our souls when we first met. If we loved closer we could have built so much.
It sucks. Im so sorry.

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To Ishmaeel’s next lady
To Ishmaeel’s next lady 150 150 Letter To My Ex

To the next women who gets to date ishmaeel, all I ask of you is to be patient with him. Understand him, and love him. Be truthful, honest and upfront. Please don’t break his heart, give him all the time attention and sex in the world. But most importantly give him space. When he wants u nothing will distract him.

All I ask is please do not beef with me, please do not dislike me bcz of the things he told you. We didn’t work out but we have a great relationship for our kids, and that’s all I ask of him. He might not be financially dependent but I can call on him for anything else where the kids are concerned in order to be physically available.

Get to know me, understand me, and you will learn a new me. I could’ve message u this directly but decided to do it for the sake of him still deciding which one of you he will choose. His a good man, he will do anything like take u to work fetch you drive you around and etc. Please understand him when his not always available to be out in the open with you, work, sports, kids things take up time. Don’t get upset with him. He will make time for you I promise.

All I want is for him to find love and happiness maybe then he will mature. He has a lot to learn and grow out of old habits but help him guide him and just be good to him.

I’m not the bitter ex.

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I’m Sorry, Thank You, and Goodbye
I’m Sorry, Thank You, and Goodbye 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Ian,

First off, I want you to know that I’m sorry for every thing. And I really mean everything… one thing being our conversations after the breakup. Even though I was the one to move out and make things more ‘final’, I was heartbroken. After working through things in therapy for a long time, I have realized that the tune of blame I put on you for our break up (not “fighting for us”) was partly a coping strategy for the pain I was feeling. I’m really sorry, because that was not fair to you. I take responsibility for what I could’ve done better, but ultimately I acknowledge that either way, our time together was meant to come to a close.

Next I want to thank you. Thank you so much for the unconditional love and support you showed me throughout our relationship. You were a wonderful human to me and all of our memories now serve as a comforting reminder of the true love we shared and the lessons learned (together and independently). I will always hold a very special place in my heart for you and Elsie.

Lastly, the realization that our break up was essential for my own growth/happiness was the toughest pill to swallow. Since parting ways, I have found more love and strength within myself than I ever thought possible. I wish nothing but the same and so much more for you. 

So that is everything, and this is my goodbye. Give Elsie all my love and best of luck in your future endeavors. 

Maddy

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Chucky was once a good guy too lol
Chucky was once a good guy too lol 150 150 Letter To My Ex

S.b –

I wasn’t wrong about you. Not in the beginning; nor at the end. 

I hope you recover.  
I hope you find out what real love is one day. 

I wasn’t the love of your life. 
I was nothing to you.
And that’s ok. 
I walk at peace with that. 

I don’t miss “us”.
I don’t miss you.
You were meant as a lesson for me.

I leave all memories of you in 2023. 

For the last time,

Goodbye.

S

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With love
With love 150 150 Letter To My Ex

I saw someone that looked like you. I couldn’t take my eyes off him. Maybe it was the height, the way he had curls that covered his eyes, his outfit, whatever it was it made me think about you. I felt weird for staring and I hope nobody noticed. You would tell me that love wouldn’t able to hold us together, but you were wrong. Ever since I left you, I started finding love in everything and eventually, I started loving myself so immensely. Love is all that matters. You made me feel so good and so happy, you were my star, the brightest star. I loved you in ways I wish you could’ve loved me, I wish you loved yourself enough.

I didn’t think I would ever had to tell you that I was glad I never had your kids, it hurt me so terribly to even say that knowing how much I wanted to watch our children grow as we love them unconditionally, as they enter their little awkward, silly stages, then eventually grow into beautiful adults. That would be so gratifying, pleasant, and so so sweet. I remember when you told me you had a dream about us and a little girl that was by our side. I told you I had a similar dream as well, I didn’t know about your dream until I told you about mine. We’d joke around and say that was our future daughter and that she was gonna be stronger than all her brothers. I’ve always wanted a daughter with you, more than anything. It made me happy. It made my eyes swell up with tears, I loved you so much I couldn’t even grasp it.

I learned overtime that love was supposed to be kind. We were so young, I had so much hope for us. I wanted you to be my first time, I wanted to give you our first child, I wanted to do laundry with you, then fold our clothes together, go grocery shopping, I wanted to cut up fruits for you. I wanted to support you and be your confidant. I hope you get everything you deserve and I truly, truly hope I don’t hear a thing about it.

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