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Good riddance
By LLHDRead moreDear Ex, What I wish I told you was how much I didn’t actually want to be with you...
0Rock bottom
By HohaRead moreThis year has been tough.The last couple months have almost sent me over the edge. I decided to end...
Dear Deceiver…
By Awake and AngryRead moreI know the whole thing was a lie, I know now I was betrayed. I wish that I could...
I want to hate you, but still think of you with a touch of longing
By AnnieRead moreDear Mike When I met you I was just out of school, eager to do everything ‘right’, to be...
I wish I never had to see you again, but we have kids
By AvaRead moreDear Sam, I really, really loved you in the beginning. But I look back now and I realise I...
Never. Ever. Again.
By misskRead moreNathan, God where do I begin. You’ve been the one constant in my life, the only person I thought...
Get a dog!
By MintsliceRead moreDear Brad, So much has happened in 18 months. I met a man who was strong. When I was...
How dumb am I?
By AJRead moreDear Paul Just found out on Facebook this week that you are “in a relationship”. Of course, you haven’t...
I hope you find happiness
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear Rob, When we first met I understood fully the kind of casual set up I was walking into....
I deserved so much better
By Letter To My ExRead moreSeeing that you are too gutless to face me, I will write it down what I really wanted to...
I’m sorry for hurting you
By Letter To My ExRead moreSaige, I can’t express in words how horrible I’m feeling without you in my life. The past three years...
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