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Letter To My Ex | What would you say to your ex if you had the chance?
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SP: What would you ask your ex if you had the chance?
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Ever craved the opportunity to sit down with your ex and talk? To get the truth, once and for all? Once time had passed and wounds had (perhaps) healed, and you’d both moved on? What if you had the chance to ask those burning questions you never got answers to… and perhaps walk away with a lighter heart?

Well, if you’re in the UK, you have an ex you keep in touch with and you’re BOTH game for a potentially heart-pounding experience, a new Channel 4 reality show is casting for ex-couples to take part.

It’s an intriguing idea. I’ve had a gazillion conversations with exes in my head, over the years – as anyone who’s suffered a broken heart probably has. Of course, we all move on in time; new lives and lovers and spouses and kids and fresh memories take over, but I reckon some experiences – particularly those in love – will always haunt us. Usually, I think it’s because we just don’t know why. Why someone fell out of love. Whether they regret their actions. How they could’ve told you they wanted to work on it but were really planning to leave. Whether they ever played hide the sausage with that slightly skanky barmaid at your local, despite hotly denying it. Or whether – gulp – they still think about you. Cue brain explosion.

And it begs the question: do we all need closure to truly put something to bed, or should some questions just remain unanswered at the end of a relationship? Is closure even a THING? Maybe – just maybe – doing something like this when you’ve healed and moved on is the best way to get it rather than at the toxic, traumatic breakdown stage. What do you guys think? Is it something you’d ever do?

If you’d like to find out more or see what’s involved, there are several ways to contact the producers and submit details / questions at www.truenorth.tv/letstalk. Or check out the show’s Facebook or Twitter pages for updates. They’re seeking ex couples, as well as current couples and potential partners as well.

Over to you, letter-writers… What’s the one question you’d ask your ex if you had the chance?

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You finally did break me
You finally did break me 150 150 Letter To My Ex

LTME postDon’t know why am writing this right now maybe its cause I miss you or am still mad but how can I be mad after all the joy you had brought into my life, or maybe its cause of the last thing you did. Instead of telling me you don’t want all of this you put on a show for the whole world to see how much of a bad person you paint me to be.

The first time I chilled with you was inspirational, I met a chick who was not too forward into things, cooled up kinda lady one who would tell you straight up what it is but then you changed. I dropped my old doings just to show you how much I cared, respected and best of all loved you. I’ve been through shit times with you, I have bailed you out when you hit tough times and I was there through every way. I wanted to leave you sometimes but I realised I needed you more than you needed me.

The last stretch was the most unpleasant but you knew what family was, you kept your cousin from vulnerable exposure but what really freaked me out is when you resented your cousin even thou what she did was unexplainable. You should have been the bigger cousin and showed her the way. But you have changed so much that you think you are better and superior than anyone. I gave you the name khent cause I knew the wonders of you but you turned around and said I was the devil, the demon, the monster, the liar, the witch in your life, only to forget.

I was there Khent when you said you are left alone. I was there when you had smoking habits but today am nobody you finally got what you wanted. I should be hating you right now but am not. I forgave you for embarrassing me, for name calling and telling all those people you hardly knew of how much of an animal I was. I stood there and watched as you said all those things and tried to see if I would be broken.

You finally did break me with the photos you sent. Be a good mum to Amu, good luck on your business venture and may your studies flourish.

I mean no harm with this

God bless

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You Kinda Gave Me A Permanent Mark
You Kinda Gave Me A Permanent Mark 150 150 Letter To My Ex

LTME postHey A…
Its been months we don’t even talk. We used to talk about everything, but right now we didn’t talk at all. I still remember the last we broke up, you sent me that long text saying that you still want to make friend with me, saying that you will always there to hear my story about life and anything. Saying that you’re sorry for hurting me. Saying that if we’re really made for each others, we will always have our way back into love again. Saying that you’re sorry for wasting my time. Saying that you love me enough to let me go. I felt so hurtful. I built everything, every dreams, with you by my side. How can I even picture someone else replacing your spot? How does it feel for you now? Cause its me, it still doesn’t fade even a bit. Just like a permanent mark. What you said. What you did. What we dreamed. What we planned. What we promised. It’s still crystal clear in my mind. I can’t even help my own self. I know this is destructive. But I don’t know what to do anymore. I need something to look forward to, just like what you used to gave me. I miss you like hell. Can’t even type, my tears are filling my eyes…

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Old perverted narcissist
Old perverted narcissist 150 150 Letter To My Ex

Dear Stephen,
When I first met you I believed all your bullshit stories about how your ex had walked out on you with your son. I felt sorry for you and wanted to protect you and make you happy again. I thought we were just friends. Then you attempted to ‘groom’ me. Which you did rather successfully at first. Once you got what you wanted that was it. I saw the real you. I walked away from your grasp, but now you want me back in your life when it suits you. You have sex with me one night and then the next you’re chasing tail half your age! You really are a dirty old perverted man who likes little girls. What does a 48-year-old see in a 24-year-old? What can you possible have in common? Oh that’s right… I forgot… You will sleep with anything.

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