Dear soon to be ex Husband,

I married you with the real intention of staying married to you for the rest of my life. I believed in my marriage vows. You treated me with disdain, ignored me for weeks on end and emotionally abused me until I had almost no friends left and was a shadow of my former self. It took me to the point when I nearly ended my own life. I realised then that it was time to leave you so I did with just the clothes on my back. Its been 10 weeks and it has been completely shitty but I have come out the other side.

Thank you for doing what you did because as others have said on here it has been a key life lesson to learn and I now have the opportunity to be happy, not ‘sit in tears’ as I used to. Not desperately trying to making you happy all of the time. I am getting my life back and I am not going to be a bitter person.

For everyone else – its easy to stay in a relationship and suffer and very hard to leave. You can bloody well do it. I have and I am looking forward to the rest of my life.