Dear ex,

Our relationship was chaotic from the beginning, but like a person who loves to fix broken things, I tried my best to fix it. But what a crazy journey it has been. The more I tried to fix things in our relationship, the nastier I became towards my friends, family, and even myself. I became self-destructive at my worst and I learned so much from our messed up relationship.

I learned a lot from our relationship. I tried my best to fix our problems with investing more time and mental energy – to the point of failing a course in my final year. I had to confront my worst fears from being with you, so now I have to challenge them.

Thanks for these life learning lessons. I’m 25 years old, and still have long ways to go. Yay….