Hello Phil,

When our five year relationship ended because you decided to not only pack up and leave for another country but also cheat on me, I couldn’t help but feel like those years were a waste. I mean, who wouldn’t right? I invested so much time and energy into you and our relationship.

After seven months without, I have finally realized it wasn’t a waste and yes, my life is fuller and richer because of those 5years. Are you the source of this richness? Fuck no, I haven’t seen or spoken to you in months, so it’s definitely not you!

After spending time with your friends and family lastnight I realized that I have met so many amazing people through you. So five years were not a waste, never realized then how many amazing friendships I was building during those years. Your friends and family have been there for me more than what some of my own friends.

Thanks for 5years of growing my circle

xxx