I’m really sorry I didn’t understand your introversion because actually I want to accommodate and I think I do get it you need to recharge alone. 
I was at a live podcast that’s about giving relationships advice and there was a couple where the man had social anxiety and very much is an introvert and I actually think they gave great advice for the wife to stop inviting her husband to things, and for him to plan and host what’s doable.

And you Know that’s what it reminds me of and I get it that it’s the introvert kind of way of doing things and I just think it’s true right now I don’t know where I’ll be next month with my job, but just that the time that you caught me at is a time where I have been going out more with trying to meet more people and I’ve been enjoying that yes but the trade-off and which logistically I think is because I have been working a lot less that is for sure a factor (from 40-12 or so hours a week!) because I wouldn’t have the energy to do this if I had my 40 hour work week I think. so That’s why I think I have put been putting that in balance by compensating with the going out because I definitely value my alone time too but sure you know I do have ambivert tendencies which you know we can embrace about each other our types of introversion and beyond so that’s my case I think.

I think we should try again in this regard.