Dear Jon,
It’s been a long time. I suppose you might be happy to hear that I haven’t been doing so well lately in terms of my health. I’m writing to you because I’m back at home and honestly you’ve been on my mind for awhile – which you probably think is weird. I don’t feel I ever got closure from what happened between you and I.

I told you it was ok when you called and apologized when in reality it hasn’t been. I think this might be harsh saying this but honestly, how would you feel if the person who you thought was your girlfriend had sex with a guy you knew, and then told you they had done it to end your relationship with them? Needless to say, it hurts and it’s not exactly the greatest ego boost. You might and probably consider it pathetic but it impacted me a great deal more I think than you and/or I expected. It’s taken me a long time to build back the self confidence I had and as pathetic as it sounds I’m still struggling.

I understand you’ve done quite well and are getting married soon. I also understand you’ve probably had to overcome quite a bit to have done that. As strange as it sounds, I’m happy that you’re in a better place than you were when I dated you. I hope your marriage will be a good one, you both will be very happy together, and you both will be faithful to one another. I don’t regret breaking up with you because the relationship wasn’t a healthy one.

Sincerely,
Ali