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   anon 9 years ago

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   I’m not sure if I’m the right recipient of this letter, but the one thing that stuck out to me was the word “cutie”. My ex and I used to always call each other that. The way that this letter is written, reminds me of him. I just want to let you know, regardless of if I’m the right person, or not, that I’ve been where you’ve been. I broke things off with my ex, because I found out he cheated on me. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do, because I really did love him, but I knew I deserved to be treated better and not lied to.

   I left, not because I stopped loving him, but because it was not the right situation to be in for my own well being. I’m still dealing with the aftermath of the breakup, and it’s been tons of months, but finally I’m reaching a point where I’m learning to love myself again, and okay with being on my own. One day, you’ll learn to love yourself on your own, too. Maybe not right away, but just understand that it takes time.

   Don’t be too hard on yourself for what happened in the past. It’s okay to apologize, it’s okay to grieve, but don’t let yourself live so much in the past that you’re afraid of living in the present, and looking towards the future. I think once you start living in the present and notice little things in life that give you happiness, like a sunny day, the sun setting, or laughing with your friends, eating your favorite food, etc. you’ll start to remember what being happy is like again.

   I wish you a Merry Belated Christmas, and although I’m not sure of what your name is, I hope that you take care. I believe in you.

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   X 9 years ago

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   Whats 231 mean?