I don’t have any idea on how to start this letter of mine other than saying–you are lucky. You are in so many ways, but having him is on top of the list.

I have nothing against you, I have nothing against your relationship, because when we broke up, I told him that what makes him happy, makes me happier even more. And if that includes him being happy with you, then I’m down for it.

Let me tell you what I know about him. First of all, let’s say this in general, he is a good guy. He is the guy that will still open doors for you and let you go in first, he is the guy that will still give you butterflies in your stomach, he is the guy that will still tell you how much he loves you even if he said it a million times already, he is the guy that will still respect your conservative beliefs, he is the guy that will mention your name on random photos on Facebook, he is the guy that I wanted to be with so bad, but he is now the guy that belongs to you.

If he gets mad, give him time to cool off and breathe. If he is happy, tell him you are too. If he feels down, cheer him up and let him know you are there for him. If he has a basketball game, watch him and be his cheerleader. If he loses a game, tell him there is always a next time. If he needs a drink, get him some Arizona. If he feels hungry, take him somewhere–may it be McDonald’s, Food Court in Plaza or Chef Foo. If he is sick, remind him to not skip his meals and drink his medicine on time. If he gives up, do not be upset, he has the right to.

I am not telling you what to do, but I am here to kindly ask you to give your 100% to him, your pure and genuine love is something he deserves.

Be the girl that will stay for him no matter what the circumstances are or no matter how stubborn he is at times, he is still a work in progress and that’s what you have to understand always.

Please, take care of him for me. Please, love him more than I did. Please, stay with him during his shortcomings. And lastly, please, do not let him go.

His ex-girlfriend