Latest letters
That happy me doesn’t exist anymore
By anonymousRead moreHey so its been like, five months since we broke up and, well, I’m not over you. I look...
0I’m not writing this to get you back
By MarakiRead moreFirst I would like to start out with telling you that I do not regret us talking at all....
Trying to understand
By MBRead moreDear you, It been a week now since we were together. It all unfolded on Christmas Eve. Our first...
To my first love
By SashaRead moreI have written other letters here for my other ex who came into my life after you . It’s...
I can’t imagine my life without you
By HanRead moreDear Ali, Things ended badly for us. We were so different. I tried making it work but you didn’t....
My biggest regret
By PeaweeRead moreBoo I need to tell you how I feel. You are the biggest regret in my life, not meeting...
To my Archer
By A.E.V.Read moreI’m sorry, but I can’t stop thinking about you as mine, in a stupid mystical way. I fucked up...
You’ll never understand the truth of yourself, Narcissist.
By A.E.V.Read moreTo the False Idol I worshiped for too long: You promised a lot, said a lot, faked a lot....
Don’t believe in love no more
By AstridRead moreI remember when i met you you dislike strangers and push me away it was hard to have a...
You’re FAT!
By SFAMSGIRLRead moreTo Thomas B, About a year ago I wrote a letter (on this site) about how you broke my...
To you, Marlene
By JackRead moreAfter giving myself time to heal and the reality has set in and I’ve came to true acceptance of...
Missed connection
By AlolRead moreIt’s been hard coming to terms with this. But it hasn’t been as difficult as the other times when...
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