I wish I had the courage to tell you this… but I can’t. You are so unstable that I am afraid you might jump off a bridge if I told you the truth. I don’t love you anymore, ok??? Take a damn hint! I broke up with you! People change as they get older and lose interest in people. It happens. Put your big boy pants on and just find someone else!

There are plenty of girls out there who would date a guy who has never had a real job for more than a month in his life. I broke up with you by a letter because at the time we did not have e-mail but also, you were getting into fights for no reason at all. You were acting like an animal. I feared for my own safety. From the way you were screaming on the phone when you called me after you got the letter, I think that what I did was absolutely right. People can call me a coward if they want to, I don’t care. It was my safety on the line, not theirs.

There are so many things I should have told you. When we first met, you had asked me for money. I was afraid to tell you that I really wasn’t comfortable with that. We had only been dating about two weeks and already you were hinting at me to give you money! I stayed with you because at the time I did not have much self esteem. I wasted five years of my life with someone who I didn’t like as much as I thought I did. I also did not know you as well as I thought I did. We have nothing at all to talk about. I can’t just remain friends because you keep begging me to go out with you again.

I DON’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE! There is nothing between us! I don’t want to waste time on someone who likes me a lot more than I like them. I don’t have a future with you. You can’t get a job so we can live together some day. By the way, no. I am not going to support you as you once suggested. I am not up to being someone’s sugar mamma. If I were looking for someone, it would be a real adult man with a job that can give me the life I want. No, I am not a gold digger. Of course I would work too. I want someone who would pull their own weight. Good work ethics are a quality that I look for because that is how I was raised.

I think that if I did remain friends with you, it might prevent you from finding someone who really likes you. You would probably think that there is still hope for us to get back together. Quit tracking me down, quit looking me up. Get over this already and MOVE ON. FIND SOMEONE ELSE!!!

I am so glad to get that out of my system. To anyone who reads this, thank you for reading.


  1. When my daughter is a teenager I think I will get her to read this one.

    • R 8 years ago

      Never let your daughter settle for a dead beat like my ex! Thanks for your kind comment.

  2. You go girl!!

    • R 8 years ago

      Thanks for your kind comments ladies.

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