Latest letters
I hope you treat the next girl with more respect
By MichelleRead moreHi. Its me. You did not ask me how I am. How my life is. Nothing. I know you...
1When we started dating everything changed
By MeganRead moreDear Ex, Hey it’s me. You might think I’m mad or angry, but I’m not. I’m just sad. You...
You shattered my heart
By MeganRead moreDear Ex, Hey it’s me. You might think I’m mad or angry, but I’m not. I’m just sad. You...
You stopped loving me
By Lizzie's HeartRead moreDear you I always thought we were united by something special and that nothing could ever separate us. I...
Now I can finally hate you.
By PERead moreA, God I just want to fucking thank you so much. It has been 5 months since you broke...
So this is how heartbreak feels
By Still HeartbrokenRead moreBrandon, Where do I even begin. When I first saw your message to me on POF, I was tempted...
Suddenly I See
By NurseWithPurseRead moreDear old, fat, bald guy: It’s amazing to me that you judge older women on the basis of their...
Who were you?
By LostRead moreThe beginning was. Amazing. The moment i met you, i felt like i had known you forever. New things...
No one deserves a third chance
By DavidRead moreDo you remember that day you and I spend together at the waterfall? There we’re so many people around...
Picking up the pieces and this one goes out to you
By Number 11Read moreDear Tom, A few weeks ago I had so much anger, disappointment and frustration in me, that I hoped...
Piss on a jellyfish sting, not my heart
By EsWRead moreSince you broke up with me by email last week, I have created a lot of new names for...
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