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How I should have been
By Logicfool on March 16, 2013Read moreI have always been introverted. Always preferred the easy path to dealing with people. When things got complicated I...
0I know what you did
By Jennifer on March 10, 2013Read moreI loved you the moment I met you, September 2008. We became great friends. I fell hard, but you...
Too much to handle
By Tay on March 9, 2013Read moreI miss you, a lot. I drink so much just to get you off my mind for a night....
Crazy, stupid love
By Rose on March 8, 2013Read moreDear you, I wish we were brave enough to have this conversation a year ago. We were both terrible...
You are finally really gone
By Coping Vortex on March 7, 2013Read moreWell, now you won’t even talk to me. For months we had on and off contact. But even so,...
Not wasting another second on you
By Honey on March 3, 2013Read moreSorry this is not working out for me. I want a man to be physically and emotionally available for...
I still love you, but what to do…
By DN on February 25, 2013Read moreDear DKT, I miss you, DKT… I really miss you. I miss our togetherness. I want to go back...
The further away, the closer you are
By L on February 21, 2013Read moreDear Mr, Sometimes the answer to ‘I don’t understand? How have I done wrong by you?’ lies deep within...
She FLIPPED out on ex’s ass
By CottonTail on February 18, 2013Read moreThis is going to sound strange but what I’m going to share is 2 consecutive text messages from a...
If you’re just playing mind games, it’s on you
By Honey on February 18, 2013Read moreI don’t know what is going on but if you are just playing mind games, it’s on you. This...
Liar, cheater, heartbreaker
By Hannah on February 6, 2013Read moreWhere to even begin. Our relationship started out great. Wonderful in fact. I fell hard and fast and completely...
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6 break-up books to read right now
I’ve written before about having good books on your bedside table when you’re heartbroken and always seem to be wide...
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I’ve been writing about dating, relationships and break-ups for a long time. And one thing I’m always asked about...
April 25, 2017Sugar overload. Send help.
Technically, the egg hunt should be happening TODAY (Sunday in Australia), but we did it yesterday because a) it...
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