Latest letters
I wish you well
By JeffRead moreDear Machiko, Last week was your birthday. I hope it was a lot of fun! I am writing to...
I tried to change, and be a better me.
By Doesn't MatterRead moreHello, I said I was more sorry than words can. All I want is your forgiveness, nothing more. Everything...
Always and forever
By JenniRead moreDear Darling Luis, I wish you could see and feel the pain I feel. No words can describe this feeling-...
Hello or goodbye?
By AliRead moreSometimes I want to say hello. Sometimes I want to say goodbye. But everyday I want to say ‘have...
It is done
By ashrabulousRead moreI feel like there is so much to still be said between us, even though I know it has...
You’re always going to mean the world to me.
By ThadRead moreFor 2 years, I liked you. I liked you the instant I met you. I couldn’t get you out...
random musings of pain and recovery
By crying, to cleanse of the pastRead moreOn our third date you asked me if I believed in fate. I said no. (I am a hopeless...
Goodbye my first love.
By MidoriRead moreDear Seiji, Remember the first time we met each other?.. It was June of 2005… I never thought na...
17 years and it’s over in a blink of an eye
By SarahRead moreJen I can’t believe after 17 years of being together and 20 years of being friends that is over....
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