Latest letters
Liar, cheater, heartbreaker
By HannahRead moreWhere to even begin. Our relationship started out great. Wonderful in fact. I fell hard and fast and completely...
1Not enough
By ARead moreDear ex, The back of my neck still burns with the sensation of you kissing it the love flowed...
The torment of your absence
By PemaRead moreDear S., It’s past midnight and I can’t sleep. I don’t want to sleep because every time I do,...
I will love you forever
By LonelyRead moreDear P, Second, minutes, days, years are going, time will not stop, I’m all alone, without you. Again. I...
You deserve much better
By MeRead moreDear Ben, I’ve felt so bad after what I did to you that I wanted to seriously injure myself...
Reflections.
By SRead moreEmily, Sending you this letter is taking an incredible risk, as what I say here may jade you further...
What was I thinking?
By SRead moreG, There are so many things I wish I could tell you…but contacting you would only open doors I’ve...
It hit me tonight
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear Ex, Wow, in a few days, it will be the start of a new semester, and it will...
To be reborn, you first have to die
By MegRead moreDear Jeremy, Do you remember when I asked you if you were over your ex? And you assured me...
Mike, still in my thoughts after all these years.
By LaurenRead moreDear Mikey, Five whirlwind months we had together, and seven years later, you are still on my mind and...
Thoughts on why I left
By EmilyRead moreDear Sean, When I broke up with you, you said it was because I was scared to make myself...
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