Latest letters
WTF Part 5
By Missing YouRead moreIt’s been 7 weeks now and I am not feeling one bit better. You have crushed me. You don’t...
0Dear Church
By PandeeloverRead moreI’m trying so hard. Each day I get a little bit better. I started going really well. 3 months...
For the words to be sufficient is required a death in the heart…
By AdrianaRead moreToday I write to you, as I always do, from that place of my heart where lies the light...
So content, now that you’re gone
By MRead moreDear V, I should have broken up with you a year ago. But better late than never. Thank God...
I’m So Sorry
By Brad James *not my real name*Read moreYou know who this is to because you have the email. I don’t want to put my name on...
Took 20 years to see the real you
By MeRead moreSoon our divorce will be final. I never thought that I would be looking forward to that. Sure it...
WTF Part 4
By Missing YouRead moreHow many days do I have to endure this pain of you leaving me. It’s just not fair. Your...
I hate you
By ElleRead moreDear Ex, I was watching TV and trying not to think about you. Then a beautiful man with your...
I miss you
By CateRead moreThis is the end of my first day without talking to you, I can’t sleep, I can’t eat, I...
WTF Part 3
By Missing YouRead moreSo tomorrow is Xmas eve. I sit here not sleeping and feeling sick to my stomach not feeling better...
WTF Part 2
By Missing YouRead moreSo…….I stopped by your house yesterday to talk after 3 weeks of no contact. You came out of your...
Inner demons
By MonicaRead moreDear O, I find it interesting how you decide to post your “Is an apology correct?” on a website...
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