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It hit me tonight
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear Ex, Wow, in a few days, it will be the start of a new semester, and it will...
0To be reborn, you first have to die
By MegRead moreDear Jeremy, Do you remember when I asked you if you were over your ex? And you assured me...
Mike, still in my thoughts after all these years.
By LaurenRead moreDear Mikey, Five whirlwind months we had together, and seven years later, you are still on my mind and...
Thoughts on why I left
By EmilyRead moreDear Sean, When I broke up with you, you said it was because I was scared to make myself...
WTF Part 5
By Missing YouRead moreIt’s been 7 weeks now and I am not feeling one bit better. You have crushed me. You don’t...
Dear Church
By PandeeloverRead moreI’m trying so hard. Each day I get a little bit better. I started going really well. 3 months...
For the words to be sufficient is required a death in the heart…
By AdrianaRead moreToday I write to you, as I always do, from that place of my heart where lies the light...
So content, now that you’re gone
By MRead moreDear V, I should have broken up with you a year ago. But better late than never. Thank God...
I’m So Sorry
By Brad James *not my real name*Read moreYou know who this is to because you have the email. I don’t want to put my name on...
Took 20 years to see the real you
By MeRead moreSoon our divorce will be final. I never thought that I would be looking forward to that. Sure it...
WTF Part 4
By Missing YouRead moreHow many days do I have to endure this pain of you leaving me. It’s just not fair. Your...
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