Rob,
I tried repeatedly to be the perfect girlfriend for 3 yrs, but honestly, this was over before it started.  We dated a good 2 yrs longer than we should have.  You tried to isolate me from my family and friends initially, while playing mental games with my head, and went psycho when I stood up for myself.  Demanded that I dress how you wanted, tried unsuccessfully to diminish my career and educational pursuits, and constantly hovered to where I had no escape even for a day. I left my job and friends to get away from you, but you followed me and caused more chaos in my life, all while draining me dry financially and emotionally. 
I had more than enough and finally forced you to leave. If you had compassion, you’d see the stress you continuously placed on me and others. 
But- you don’t care and this is where I stop as well. 
I cannot worry about someone who doesn’t have regard for others (or themselves). 
Still I wish the best for you, and hope NEVER to cross paths.