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You’re a coward and a liar
By RoquentinRead moreYou know, Steve, I thought I had so much to say to you. Especially since we didn’t really talk...
2After great pain, a formal feeling comes
By S/SRead moreB/D, Depression. Missing you, your family, our future. Regret for my nonsense. Pain. Ugly and sick from this grief....
I just wanted you to be patient with me
By Missing YouRead moreIt took me until my early 30s to fall in love for the first time and you were him....
I still have the necklace you gave me around my neck
By MuzymilRead moreI’m a student I have many stuff to do actually I’m a busy guy. I fell in love with...
Laying the ghost of you to rest (maybe)
By Paul WRead moreI have no idea why after 18 months or so I am writing this, maybe this is cathartic, purging...
Never sacrifice your self worth on the altar of someone else’s issues
By MelissaRead more“Love is something you do for someone else, not something you do for yourself.” Emotional attachment is something I...
So much happier without you
By it's me againRead morehello, its me… again.. but the time, I’m not here to cry about you leaving me. I’m not here...
Butterflies don’t drown
By AmyRead moreDo you remember the story I told you about learning to water ski? I wanted so badly to be...
I’m back and can’t stop thinking about you
By ARead moreLT, It’s been a long time since we spoke. When we broke up, we really cut off everything and...
It will all be better in time
By Heather OsborneRead moreOnce and a while I think of you. Okay, all the time I think of you. I feel as...
It was only good when it lasted
By LauraRead moreits hard cause am running out of words, I thought we could last, I thought I was going to...
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