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I’m not sure if this is better or much, much worse
By MRead moreSo, we’re now ‘friends’. its a different pain now, less raw; more like a persistent dull ache. I don’t...
4How do you make this seem so easy
By RockRead moreMy Queen, I know you will probably never get to read this letter and that is probably for the...
That was then.
By Kate GunRead moreFor a long time I hated your guts. Thought you were the worlds most heartless human. I’ve never understood...
Reality is within yourself
By DBRead moreDear VH, It’s been almost a year since we broke up and over this year I’ve learnt that nothing...
My heart may be broken still, but it was worth it
By ScottRead more“Who knows how long I’ve loved you, you know I love you still, will I wait a lonely lifetime?...
It would have been nice to see you one last time
By CathRead moreAdam, I just sat and read the old letter I found that id wrote and never sent. I forgot...
I hope you can dance now
By AlyssaRead moreI hated country music. I hated baseball. I hated gingers. Now it seems I try and find a guy...
Indeed, a Stupid Boy am I
By Prince DozaRead more“A candle flickers violently just before it goes out.” Eight pages of all the vitriol I could muster still...
Never together.
By UnknownRead moreThree years ago you told me we would be happy. That we’d have everything in the palm of our...
Letting it go
By columbianqueenRead moreDear V, It’s the moment to write you what I’m not able to tell you. Today it’s been a...
In another life
By LouiseRead moreDear Martin, It feels like there are not enough words to describe the heaviness in my heart. You have...
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