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Back to square one
By MRead moreSo, you suddenly got in touch – telling me how you always have, always will love me.. how you’d...
6I was completely obliterated by your decision
By potato farmerRead moreDearest JIGYASHA, I know we are not in contact now. It have been a month of no-contact. I still...
A simple conversation is all I want
By LRead moreI just want to know that you don’t hate me. I’m sorry about everything, and want to tell you...
I hope we end up like The Notebook.
By KittenfaceRead moreLittle Monkeyface, It’s been over 5 months, and I think I’ve cried almost every day. There are so many...
I want to hate you and I can’t
By AnneRead moreI’m in so much pain, I just want the world to stop turning, for me to disappear from it....
The Trifecta
By CRead moreIts only fair to start off by saying that there’s three ex’s back to back. One mistake right after...
I Made Mistakes, but They Were Mistakes That We Could Overcome
By IanRead moreDear Eliza, I want to start off by writing that, despite my recent inappropriate outpourings of raw emotion to...
You walked out.
By NawalRead moreDear Cameron, When you read this it is already too late to mean anything to you, but I can’t...
Thinking about everything makes my heart hurt
By K.B.Read moreDear ex-future husband, I know that there is a lot that I can’t actually say to you. There are...
Maybe one day we’ll meet again and laugh about this together
By NinaRead moreDear Ex-Boyfriend aka Honey, You cheated on me seventeen days ago. It’s still unbelievable to me that it happened....
I miss your body!
By wistfulRead moreIt’s warm here, and it stirs up memories of how great you looked with your big arms on show....
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