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He Who Loves Least Controls the Relationship?
By The Real Crazy One (for not being able to let go, no matter how much it hurt)Read moreI was crazy in my own way. Crazy to pursue for I don’t know what. Something. Anything. What was...
0You’re not a man
By Miss Brave FaceRead moreI’m writing this because I never had the chance to get what I wanted to say off my chest....
will always love you
By mashamba zondyRead morei know i have tried to apologize for what happened so many times. i know sometimes i act as...
Just very angry.
By TKRead moreEither you are the most confused person I know or you really want to play it safe by pretending...
I’ll never understand you
By MeRead moreDear My First Love, It’s been 5 months now and I’m happy to say I’m getting over you. It...
I was used and I’m angry.
By MickRead moreLady, I’m sorry I could not be all the man’s man you wanted or originally idealized me as when...
All’s well
By EmilyRead moreJohannes, Life’s too short to waste time feeling bad about the past. I had a conversation yesterday which got...
I deserve so much better
By DoraRead moreColton, I would like to start by saying you are the love of my life. You make me feel...
I’ll always love you
By AaronRead moreBaby, I miss you, I feel guilty, I know I shouldn’t, but I still do. You were my rock....
You’ll always have a small space in my heart
By BecRead moreI want you to know that I still have feelings for you. To be honest, I’m not sure what...
It all went pear-shaped
By PearshaperRead moreIt all went pair shaped when you stopped rubbing my belly. Never mind all the things I did wrong,...
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