Latest letters
Never. Ever. Again.
By misskRead moreNathan, God where do I begin. You’ve been the one constant in my life, the only person I thought...
1Get a dog!
By MintsliceRead moreDear Brad, So much has happened in 18 months. I met a man who was strong. When I was...
How dumb am I?
By AJRead moreDear Paul Just found out on Facebook this week that you are “in a relationship”. Of course, you haven’t...
I hope you find happiness
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear Rob, When we first met I understood fully the kind of casual set up I was walking into....
I deserved so much better
By Letter To My ExRead moreSeeing that you are too gutless to face me, I will write it down what I really wanted to...
I’m sorry for hurting you
By Letter To My ExRead moreSaige, I can’t express in words how horrible I’m feeling without you in my life. The past three years...
I got what I deserve and I hope you do too
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear Allan, thank you so much for dumping me, and allowing me to get on with my life. I...
What I wish I’d told you
By Letter To My ExRead moreAllan, at last I can get a word in without you putting me down. First, I’m SO glad I...
You left me hanging and I can’t let go
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear JP I just wish I knew why you disappeared. 11 months of a relationship deserves some sort of...
I should hate you
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear JJF, I should hate you, I try to hate you, I tell myself every day to hate you...
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