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I got what I deserve and I hope you do too
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear Allan, thank you so much for dumping me, and allowing me to get on with my life. I...
3What I wish I’d told you
By Letter To My ExRead moreAllan, at last I can get a word in without you putting me down. First, I’m SO glad I...
You left me hanging and I can’t let go
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear JP I just wish I knew why you disappeared. 11 months of a relationship deserves some sort of...
I should hate you
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear JJF, I should hate you, I try to hate you, I tell myself every day to hate you...
Much too young to have gone through you
By Letter To My ExRead moreDear ____, It’s been a year, a month, and three days since you left me for her. I was...
Why did you do it?
By Letter To My ExRead moreTo Belinda, I really want to know why you did it when I gave you all I could. I...
Three years on…
By Letter To My ExRead moreHey Kat, So, it’s three years on and we are both in relationships. Yours started less than a month...
Thank you to you…
By Letter To My ExRead moreM.O I just want to say thank you. Thank you for finally ending something I didn’t have the guts...
I’m so sorry…
By Letter To My ExRead moreDavid… there is so much to tell you and yet not enough words to describe what I’m going through....
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If you’ve ever had a relationship end, you’ll know it’s really easy to make bad decisions post break-up. As...
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Whether you’re going through a break-up or know someone else who is, here are a few of my favourite...
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