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I have found my self-respect
By KayRead moreHi A So after 7 months of being apart we have decided to give our relationship another go. I...
0You have what you deserve.
By SunnygirlRead moreEdward, I just wanted to tell you that, after months of crying, feeling bad, unworthy and less than enough,...
You sucked me in.
By GregRead moreVanessa, You’ll never read this. And that’s fine because I’m writing it for me. I know it will be...
My unaccepted apology
By ThomasinaRead moreN I know I went off the rails with you, and for that I’m genuinely sorry. You took me...
It all started with a “Hello”
By SweetheartRead moreDear B, I will always remember the very first time we met, the very first time my lips touched...
It just wasn’t the right time for us.
By HaleyRead moreAll of this is so hard for me for so many reasons. I love you so much. In the...
We can’t meet anymore
By LRRead moreDear S, Two months of joy and happiness is meant to be celebrated today. Two months since I felt...
You selfish person
By PissedOffCanadianRead moreThis sounds crazy, but for the past 11 years, in those rare moments, and very rare moments that they...
I can’t get over you
By GoneRead moreDear ex, This is not easy for me to write because it brings back so many old feelings. You...
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