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Still I think about you
By BrystRead moreTyler, It’s been over six months but I still catch myself thinking about you. And I know I shouldn’t....
0Oh how I wish you’d read this.
By JRead moreI absolutely miss you. Is it all that great without me? I want to know. Was it easy to...
Paulie’s Past
By AshleyRead moreNot a day goes by I don’t regret letting you walk away. To a man I never deserved, to...
I wish I had done something wrong
By MRead moreif I’d done something bad, maybe I would feel more justified in wanting to beg you to come back...
stupid boy
By freespiritRead moreYou screwed up, you are screwed up. Go back to the bar and your good time ‘friends’. I’m done....
Seven year itch is real
By EmmaRead moreDear Eric, You’re a fucking coward to break up with me on the phone after almost eight years together....
Honestly, you’ll never be…
By the old meRead moreScott – I’ve thought a lot about this since your “you blocked me (and implied bitch)” email. I am...
Back to square one
By MRead moreSo, you suddenly got in touch – telling me how you always have, always will love me.. how you’d...
I was completely obliterated by your decision
By potato farmerRead moreDearest JIGYASHA, I know we are not in contact now. It have been a month of no-contact. I still...
A simple conversation is all I want
By LRead moreI just want to know that you don’t hate me. I’m sorry about everything, and want to tell you...
I hope we end up like The Notebook.
By KittenfaceRead moreLittle Monkeyface, It’s been over 5 months, and I think I’ve cried almost every day. There are so many...
I want to hate you and I can’t
By AnneRead moreI’m in so much pain, I just want the world to stop turning, for me to disappear from it....
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