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Leah: So mad so sad so miss you so glad
By zRead moreIts not the moaning or fcking sounds -it’s the tender voice you used to say “it’s ok” to another...
1It’s been eight years
By HRead moreIt’s been 8 years since you broke up with me. It was a short but intense 4-month relationship –...
When one door closes use the damn key to open it!
By ARead moreV From the first time I met you I was attracted. You might be ardent follower of ID, Freud...
Wish I could return to the start
By PRead moreDear M We met out of the blue in a nightclub. You got your friend to come over and...
Damn I miss you.
By CreamyRead moreDerrick… WHere do I start? I love you. I miss you. I want to try again. I wonder if...
Stop doing this to me
By BRead moreB I have literally forgotten how to be happy without you. I know you don’t deserve me anymore, but...
I begged you not to leave me.
By Sinazo FanieRead moreDear D. Before I came across this site, I had been chatting to you. I read too many apology...
Dear Replacement. (His current girlfriend.)
By CatRead moreThere are a few things I think you should know, as you are now the object of his affection....
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