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Dear Chief
By MedsRead moreChief, I still love you and despite what people say, time has not changed that. In fact time has...
0How dare you treat me like that?
By louiseRead moreI hate you so much for what you have done to me. How dare you treat me like that? I don’t...
How you made me feel.
By louiseRead moreI am just so confused. How could you? Why did you? Those are the two answers that I don’t think...
To my fashionable former flame…
By C.N.Read moreIt’s been about eight months now, and the pain is not as bad as it once was, but I...
Wish I’d woken up to you sooner
By NotFakeLikeHimRead moreIt’s been a few months now. At first I wanted to see you and to have have you there...
You love playing the martyr
By AVPRead moreYou’re so full of fucking shit! You love playing martyr and are an asshole because you use your circumstances...
Can’t believe you would drop me like that.
By JamieRead moreDear _____, So much of my effort and time was invested in you and our relationship. I was in...
Four years of rose-tinted glasses…
By AVPRead moreBunty, bunty, bunty…. It’s painful to have the sudden realisation that you fell out of love with me a...
Still in me
By AVPRead moreManav… Where do I start? I actually anticipated us not working out…and it’s not that that even hurts me....
I miss you, or at least who I thought you were
By L.B92Read moreYou hate me. And I don’t know why. YOU broke up with me. You don’t want to see me...
What happened in Fitzroy
By JMRead moreDear MS, This is short. It therefore took a long time to write. You are married and have two...
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