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Thank-you for teaching me how to use chop-sticks
By CharlotteRead moreDear Ryan, It has been 3 months since we broke up and I want to get something off my...
1Gone and soon to be forgotten
By DudeRead moreTo Brooke, It was a fairytale romance. We both put ourselves out there for one another and the moment...
To the woman who stole my life
By MaggieTheCatRead moreDear Theresa, Where do I begin? I think about the tone in your voice when you said to me,...
John is another name for Satan
By MaggieTheCatRead moreDear Satan’s Rep in North Carolina, It is hard to believe that I spent over 20 years of my...
JUST GET LOST ALREADY!!!
By RRead moreI wish I had the courage to tell you this… but I can’t. You are so unstable that I...
Dear Chief
By MedsRead moreChief, I still love you and despite what people say, time has not changed that. In fact time has...
How dare you treat me like that?
By louiseRead moreI hate you so much for what you have done to me. How dare you treat me like that? I don’t...
How you made me feel.
By louiseRead moreI am just so confused. How could you? Why did you? Those are the two answers that I don’t think...
To my fashionable former flame…
By C.N.Read moreIt’s been about eight months now, and the pain is not as bad as it once was, but I...
Wish I’d woken up to you sooner
By NotFakeLikeHimRead moreIt’s been a few months now. At first I wanted to see you and to have have you there...
You love playing the martyr
By AVPRead moreYou’re so full of fucking shit! You love playing martyr and are an asshole because you use your circumstances...
Can’t believe you would drop me like that.
By JamieRead moreDear _____, So much of my effort and time was invested in you and our relationship. I was in...
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